Manachiye Gunti..........

divas khup normal suru asato..office madhe rojachich kama astat...tyach tya files, tech te kagad....toch vajnara phone nd fwd msgs...sagala kasa ekdum suralit?? (thodasa monotonous) chalu asata......kahi chalbichal nai, kahi ghalmel nai kahi kahi nai.....jasa saklachya velcha shant jalashay....thodya far varyachya lahari nd tyasobat panyavar uthnare tarang......

bt tevdhyat kahitari yeun dhapkan padava panyat tyapramane ek msg yeun thadakato...nd talavat asankhya tarang uthtat....khup jordar usali gheto...tasach kahisa zala eka msg ne....."lagin tharala" khara tar kiti anadachi batmi, bt hyach anandaachya batmine akhkha man punha ekda ghusalun nighala.....jakham bharun fakt vran urala asel ashi kalpana karat astana khapali ajun pan oli aslyachi janiv nd dukha hota tas kahisa zala.....

eka msg ne...dakhavun dila ki aaplyala vatat tevdha he man soppa naiye.....tevdha sahaj he kahi visarat nahi kahich ani kadhich....janavala...jya goshti aapan visaralo asa mhanato tya actually fakt kholvar dabun thevlelya astat....jo mukhavata aapan khup "strong" ahot asa dakahavato to eka kshnat galun padato......saglya goshti kal parva ghadlya sarkhya distat..aiku yetat, feel hotat...nd mag thodya velasthi ka hoina punha te sagale kshan jagale jatat.......punha ekda mail box chalun hoto, chat logs vachun hotat, june june thevlele msgs vachun hotat....ani....

va pu cha ek vakya yaveli ajun bochun jata..."aathavani ya mungyanchya varula sarkhya astat..varula kade baghun andaz nai yet yat kiti munga asatil....bt ekda ka mungya baher padayala laglya ki mag tyana thambavana kathin....tasach athvanincha"

man talyat malayat asata..ekda bhutkalatalya sukhad athvanit nd ekda vartamanatalya satya paristhitit......ikadun tikade tikadun ikade....aani aapan yat kahihi karu shakat nai...karan aapala manavar taba ch uralela nasato.......aapalya hatat fakt man jasa firel tasa tyachya magun firat rahayacha itakach asata.....

यार आपली बात च काही खास आहे....

  

शाळेपासुनची दोस्ती आपली....त्याची काही खास याद आहे...
लहानपणी केलेल्या प्रत्येक मस्तीत एकमेकांची साथ आहे...
यार आपली बात च काही खास आहे....

तू  ती तशी मे ही अशी...तरी जोडी बनली कशी? 

सगळ्याचा हा जुना प्रश्न आहे.....
but we only know यार आपली बात च काही खास आहे...   

लोकांसाठी 'दोस्ताना" आहे.....we know आपला जुना याराना आहे....
मारलेल्या प्रत्येक मुलाची शप्पथ घेऊन सांगते......
आपली बात च काही खास आहे....यार आपला एक जमाना आहे.....

ते क्षण भिजलेले......

ते क्षण भिजलेले....
तुझ्या माझ्यातले.....ओल्या चिंब पावसातले
डोळ्यावरून ओघळणारे....ओठानि टिपलेले

ते क्षण भिजलेले....
बेधुन्ध भिजण्याचे...मिठीत शिरण्याचे...
हसता हसता रडण्याचे...अश्रू पावसात लपवण्याचे...

ते क्षण भिजलेले....
कधी नुसतेच खिडकीत बसून राहायचे....कधी हातात हात घालून फिरायचे...
कोसळणार्‍या सरींचे मूक साक्षीदार बनायचे...

ते क्षण भिजलेले....
हळूवार पणे जपलेले....आठवणीच्या राज्यात अलगद उलगडणारे.....
तुला माझ्यात आणि मला तुझ्यात समावणारे.....  

 ते क्षण भिजलेले....
 

Second? Chance.......

 

It’s another morning..
….. Again I have to go to office.

Ohh, this is me… I shouted having a glance on my snap in today’s news paper.

But what the HELL it is doing in the death column??



Strange…

One sec... Let me think, last night when I was going to bed I had a severe pain in my chest, but I don’t remember anything after that, I think I had a sound sleep.

Its morning now, ohh….. It’s already 10:00 AM, where is my coffee?

I will be late for office and my boss will get a chance to irritate me.

Where is everyone…??? I screamed.

“I think there is a crowed outside my room, let me check.” I said to myself.


So many people….. Not all of them crying…

But why some of them crying…

WHAT IS THIS??? I m laying there on the floor…



“I AM HERE” … I shouted!!! No one listen.

“LOOK I AM NOT DEAD” … I screamed once again!!! No one is interested in me.

They all were looking me on the bed.

I went back to my bed room.

“Am I dead??” I asked myself.

Where is my wife, my children, my mom-DAD, my friends?

I found them in the next room, all of them were crying… still trying to console each other.



My wife was crying… she was really looking sad.

My little kid was not sure what happened, but he was crying just coz his mom was sad.


How can I go without saying my kid that I really love him, I really do care of him. ??

How can I go without saying my wife that she is really most beautiful and most caring wife in this world..??

How can I go without saying my parents that I m … just because of u ??

How can I go without telling my friends that without them perhaps I have done most of the wrong things in my life… thanks for being there always when I need them… and sorry for not being there when they really need me..


I can see a person standing in the corner and trying to hide his tears…

Ohh… he was once my best friend, but a small misunderstanding made us part, and we both have strong enough ego to keep us disconnect.

I went there.. And offered him my hand, “Dear friend… I just want to say sorry for everything, we r still best friend, please forgive me.”


No response from other side, what the hell?? He is still preserving his ego, I am saying sorry… even then!!!

I really don’t care for such people.

But one sec…. it seems he is not able to see me!!!! He did not see my extended hand.

My goodness… AM I REALLY DEAD???

I just sat down near ME; I was also feeling like crying…


“OHH ALMIGHTY!!!! PLEASE JUST GIVE ME FEW MORE DAYS…”

I just wasn’t to make my wife, my parents; my friends realize that how much I love them.


My wife entered in the room, she looks beautiful.

“YOU R BEAUTIFUL” I shouted.

She didn’t hear my words, in fact she never heard these words coz I never said this to her.


“GOD!!!!” I screamed… a little more time plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..

I cried…



One more chance please… to hug my child, to make my mom smile just once, to feel my dad proud on me at least for a moment, to say sorry to my friends for everything I have not given to them, and thanks for still being in my life….

Then I looked up and cried!!!!

I shouted….

“GOD!!!! ONE MORE CHANCE PLEASE!!!!”
"You shouted in your sleep," said my wife as she gently woke me up. "Did you have a nightmare?"

I was sleeping….

Ohh that was just a dream….



My wife was there… she can hear me…

This is the happiest moment of my life…

I hugged her and whispered…. “U R THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND CARING WIFE IN THIS UNIVERSE…. I REALLY LOVE U DEAR”


I can’t understand the reason of the smile on her face with some tears in her eyes, still I m happy….

“THANK YOU GOD FOR THIS SECOND? CHANCE.”

WOMEN RULE!!!!!

Women. What an extraordinary group of people! We are so good at so many things. If you want to get something done, have a woman do it. We love a challenge. We love showing people we can accomplish so much. We also care deeply about others. We just can't help ourselves. It is part of who we are. We love helping people. We love making a difference. We love laughing and being a part. We love contributing. The bottom line is...WE LOVE LIFE.


We live in a time where people of all backgrounds have a chance to build a great team in business regardless of gender. However, it's not uncommon for women to hit a glass ceiling and never see any blue sky. When I was working as a flight attendant, early in my career, you would think I saw blue sky all the time. What I saw, unfortunately, was a system that was seniority based, not performance based, and I realized my options were limited. I made a decision then and there to become an entrepreneur. In ten short years, at World Financial Group, we have built a great team of thousands around the country using the timeless principles I am going to share with you in this book.

As Peggy Anderson said, "Great women are not considered so because of personal achievements, but for the effect their efforts have had on the lives of countless others. From daring feats of bravery to the understated ways of a compassionate heart, great women possess a common strength of character. Through their passion and persistence, they have advanced womanhood and the world."

I remember early on in my career, I was told by several people, "Don't hire any women. They have too many responsibilities. They have children and husbands and charities, etcetera. They will not be able to put in the time it takes to really make their business work."

I listened to that for a brief time and then I accidentally hired some women. I was ready for all the excuses, but I never heard any. I was also blown away by how much they could get done, and how they were performing better than everyone else in the office. I realized we had a secret weapon. You want your business to grow - HIRE MORE WOMEN!
There have been many "ceilings" in the past pertaining to women. A lot has changed in the last couple of years. Consider these facts based on reports by the U.S. Department of Labor and the Center for Women's Business Research in 2003:

Women-owned businesses are growing at twice the rate of all U.S. firms.

One in every 11 adult women owns a business.

Women entrepreneurs generate nearly $2.3 trillion in revenues to the U.S. economy.

More than 18 million workers are employed by a women business owner.

What does all this mean? WOMEN RULE!



 

How Your Life Matters

 
"Not long ago, I finally told the story of when, at the age of twenty-three, homeless and scared, I was given guidance in a most unusual fashion by an old man named Jones. What the old man told me did nothing less than change my life and my future. He said..."With a little perspective you can live a life of permanent purpose."

When I asked what he meant, the old man answered with a question. "Do you sometimes find yourself unconsciously judging your actions by level of importance?" I frowned a bit, not certain I understood. "For instance, "he continued, "the time you spend with friends is important, but the time you spend with family, is more important. You might rank an hour fishing as very important, thirty minutes visiting a sick friend in the hospital much more important than the fishing, and a sixty second conversation with a convenience store clerk as not very important at all."
I nodded my understanding and he returned to his initial point. "When you know that everything matters -that every move counts as much as any other -you will begin living a life of permanent purpose. A life of permanent purpose will make you a better parent, a better spouse, and a more valuable friend. Your productivity and financial success will soar to new heights while the old days of uncertainty, doubt, and depression fade into the past."
Of course, that conversation with Jones changed me. But even more, it became the guiding force that produced the kind of speaker and author I have become. You see, I understand fully that my very value as an author and speaker must ultimately be judged by the success you achieve. And as I consult with companies or speak to organizations and teams, I am keenly aware that much of my client's (your) ability to succeed beyond imagination depends upon my ability to prove this very concept!
When one lives a life of permanent purpose, sales figures soar, team chemistry thrives, and teenage decisions become wiser and more cautious. And these are just a few examples of what will happen...Simply put, when we understand that every action matters, every result of our actions immediately improves!"

Incidently, my mail box got this mail...nd i was just amazed and astonished....now you will feel whts so gr8 in this mail..its a typical phiolosophical, self help category mail....bt the thing which surprised me is last sunday i attended a workshop called ' Secret beyond the secret' by Dr. Pradeep Pawar.
The workshop was on similar lines....the most important thing which had been disscussed and implemented was 'EFT i.e Emotional Freedom Technique'
we all know that our thoughts and mind has immense power, we have heard whatever you think you are right etc etc. these statements sound good to hear but people like me who are left brain dominant ask for scientific proofs. In this workshop. i got to see that, and i started believing the same. but it doesnot mean that, each and every thought of us is being implemented and  transmitted to the universe. the thoughts which we pay attention and back them up with emotional, only those thoughts are being spread in the field.

EFT is based on the electrical systems in our body called the meridians. It is an emotional version of acupuncture except that needles are not used, where the release points are stimulated by tapping with the fingertips. We can think of the meridians like rivers along which the electricity in our body flows. This flow has been called many other names such as, chi, prana, life force, electromagnetic, electrical or just energy. EFT helps in restoring the energy flow to normal and that helps us feel emotionally and physically healthy.
The tapping on the acupuncture points on the meridian system releases the blockages that are created when a person thinks about or becomes involved in an emotionally disturbing circumstance. When this blockage is released, energy flow is restored and the emotions come into balance. When this happens, the person will react to the situation or memory in a rational way.The memory remains but the negative charge is gone.

EFT is based on new discoveries regarding the body's subtle energies. This technique has been described by some as one of the most important breakthroughs in the area of psychology in this century. EFT has been used successfully by physicians, therapists and even psychiatrists all over the world thousands of people benefiting from it.

Hana's Suitcase: A true story

The story begins with a suitcase--a mysterious bag that arrived at a children's Holocaust education center in Tokyo, Japan in March 2000. Written simply in white paint on the outside were these words: "Hana Brady, May 16, 1931." Added to the inscription was the word waisenkind—German for "orphan."

Children who visited the center began to wonder about this person, Hana Brady. Who was she, and what became of her?

They approached the center's curator, Fumiko Ishioka, with their questions. Hana's Suitcase is Ms. Ishioka's answer. Chapters skip back and forth between Hana's experience as a Holocaust victim, to how the mystery of the suitcase was finally solved. Based on a radio documentary of author Karen Levine, this book is suspenseful, sad, and incredible in its untangling of a mystery that took Fumiko from North America to Europe, and spanned over seven decades.

Besides the amazing story of discovery, Levine's work also offers readers an opportunity to "meet" a young person not unlike themselves, who once lived happily in her own little world in Czechoslovakia before the Nazis turned it upside down. It's a call to appreciate the fragility of life, and to cling to those things--and people--we hold dear.

आपण सारे कर्ण

कर्ण.........
कोणत्या तरी मराठी वाहिनी वर मृत्युंजय सुरू होणार याची जाहिरात पहिली....आणि मन खूप वर्ष मागे गेल.....
मृत्युंजय या कादांबरीने माझी वाचनाची आवड च बदलून टाकली....खरा म्हणजे ही कादांबरी हातात घेतली ते फक्त सगलयानी सांगितला की खूप छान आहे वाचली पाहिजे म्हणून.....महाभारत किंवा कर्ण याबद्दल विशेष काही जाणून घ्यावा असा कधी वाटला नाही
पण मृत्युंजय हातात घेतला आणि मी कर्णाच्या प्रेमात च पडले........अख्ख्या महाभारतात जर कोणता पात्र मनापासून आवडल असेल आणि पटल असेल तर ते कर्ण आहे.....

मध्यंतरी व.पु.काळे यांच 'आपण सारे अर्जुन' वाचनात आल......त्यामधे त्यानी अतिशय उत्तम रित्या दाखवून दिला आहे की हे जीवन कसा कुरुक्षेत्र आहे आणि आपण कसे अर्जुना सारखे हतबल असतो....
पण ते वाचताना सुद्धा मला एक गोष्ट सारखी जाणवत होती आणि ती म्हणजे आपण सारे कर्ण जास्त असतो.....
एक मानस शास्त्रज्ञ म्हणून काम करताना आणि आजच्या तरुण पिढी सोबत वावरताना मला सगळे अर्जुन कमी आणि कर्ण जास्त वाटतात...

त्यातलाच एक हे विचारांच चित्रण.....मी एका मुलाला मृत्युंजय कस वाटला हे विचारात होते....त्याला सांगण्याचा प्रयत्न करत होते की कर्ण कसा कठीण आयुष्या जगला वगैरे.....
आजची मुल कसा आणि किती खोल विचार करतात याचा हे चित्रण......त्यांच्या मनात किती खळबळ असते त्याचा हा नमूना

कर्ण हा सूत पुत्र म्हणून त्याला बर्‍याच गोष्टीन पासून वंचित राहावा लागल...आज आपल्याकडे पण "आरक्षण" या नावाखाली बर्‍याच जणांना चांगल्या संधींपासून वंचित राहावा लागता.....अर्जुन राजकुमार होता म्हणून त्याला सहजा सहजी सगळ्या विद्या, अस्त्र ज्ञान, गुरू जणांचा आदर लाभला, पण कर्ण...त्याला या सगळ्या गोष्टी सतत संघर्ष करून आणि झगडून च मिळवावया लागल्या.....आजची तरुण पिढी ची तरी काय वेगळी अवस्था आहे? कष्ट करून मारुन मारुन 90%-92% मिळवायाचे....आणि अड्मिशन घ्यायचा वेळी बघायला काय मिळणार? ओपन लिस्ट क्लोज़....एका एका पॉइण्ट ने अड्मिशन गेली पण रिज़र्वेशन लिस्ट मात्र 50-60% सुद्धा अड्मिशन चालू......
तीच कथा नोकरी मधे...आंगच्या गुणानपेक्षा कोण साहेबा च्या मर्जितला त्याला जास्त संधी.......जसा अर्जुनाला श्री कृष्ण........

मग आम्ही फ्रास्ट्रेट नाही होणार? का नाही कोणत्या दुर्योधनाची साथ देण्याचा विचार करणार......दुसर्या कोणाच्या स्वार्ता साठी का होईना आम्हाला जर आमचे गुण दाखवण्याची संधी मिळाली तर का नाही आम्ही ती घ्यायची...
असा प्रश्न उभा राहणार च ना???
आजच्या आम्हा तरुणांमधे आणि कर्ण यात आजुन एक साम्य म्हणजे आमची कामाला वाहून घेण्याची वृत्ती, एखादी गोष्ट मिळवण्याचा ध्यास आणि त्यासाठी कितीही कष्ट करण्याची तयारी......कर्ण परशूरामकडे शिकला.....एक चुक आणि त्याला शाप मिळला.....
तसाच काहीसा होता आमच पण.....सगळ नीट असत एक च चुक होते आणि होत्याच न्हव्ता होऊन बसता......
कर्ण हा Misguided होता....आमचा पण तसाच काहीसा आहे......आम्ही पण चांगले आहोत खूप चांगले आहोत पण 1-2 चुकांमुळे आम्ही भरकटलेले आहोत.......आम्हाला कोणी कृष्ण भेटेल? जो कोणत्या अर्जुनसाठी आमचा वध नाही करणार......

Situational Leadership

“He is happy whose circumstances suit his temper but he is more excellent who can suit his temper to any circumstances”-David Hume

For years, when people talked about leadership style, they talked in terms of two extremes – an autocratic (directive) and a democratic (supportive) style. Autocratic leaders used position power and their authority to get results while democratic leaders used personal resources (power) and involved others in participative problem-solving and decision-making.

But then onwards the mode of business, culture exchange, communication, and development changed the corporate world. The modern business is delivering time and mission critical solution in faster pace. People from different background, culture & nature are engaged together in a single platform of solution. The rate of risks, criticalities are higher, which require a change in the style of handling the situation, adopt change and satisfy the need from parent organization to client organization. Also, experience and further research, however, showed that leadership style tend to vary considerably from situation to situation.
And, that’s where leadership style, and leadership model that presumes that different leadership styles are better in different situations, and that leaders must be flexible enough to adapt their style to the situation they are in. it can be said that it is the relationship between a leader's style and his or her environment to influence the performance of subordinates and empower team with energy and positive mindset.

I just loved this.....

George Bernard Shaw said, "People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I don't believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can't find them, they make them."
Well, it's pretty apparent, isn't it? And every person who discovered this believed (for a while) that he was the first one to work it out. We become what we think about.
Conversely, the person who has no goal, who doesn't know where he's going, and whose thoughts must therefore be thoughts of confusion, anxiety and worry - his life becomes one of frustration, fear, anxiety and worry. And if he thinks about nothing... he becomes nothing.
How does it work? Why do we become what we think about? Well, I'll tell you how it works, as far as we know. To do this, I want to tell you about a situation that parallels the human mind.
Suppose a farmer has some land, and it's good, fertile land. The land gives the farmer a choice; he may plant in that land whatever he chooses. The land doesn't care. It's up to the farmer to make the decision.
We're comparing the human mind with the land because the mind, like the land, doesn't care what you plant in it. It will return what you plant, but it doesn't care what you plant.
Now, let's say that the farmer has two seeds in his hand- one is a seed of corn, the other is nightshade, a deadly poison. He digs two little holes in the earth and he plants both seeds-one corn, the other nightshade. He covers up the holes, waters and takes care of the land...and what will happen? Invariably, the land will return what was planted.

As it's written in the Bible, "As ye sow, so shall ye reap."
Remember the land doesn't care. It will return poison in just as wonderful abundance as it will corn. So up come the two plants - one corn, one poison.
The human mind is far more fertile, far more incredible and mysterious than the land, but it works the same way. It doesn't care what we plant...success...or failure. A concrete, worthwhile goal...or confusion, misunderstanding, fear, anxiety and so on. But what we plant it must return to us.
You see, the human mind is the last great unexplored continent on earth. It contains riches beyond our wildest dreams. It will return anything we want to plant.

दिसामाजी लिहावे काही

दिसामाजी लिहावे काही...या विचाराने केलेला हा लेखन प्रपंच....काहीतरी घडेल मग आपण लिहु...इतर ब्लॉग्स वाचल्यावर कळ्ल की कोणत्याही गोष्टीवर काहीही लिहिता येऊ शकता फक्त लिहिता यायला हॅव...व्यक्त होण आणि व्यक्त कारण महत्वाच.....आजचीच गोष्ट...मैत्रिणी ने ओफिस मधून रिझाइन केला.....आता यावर मला तरी काही फारसा लिहिता येत नाहीए....

फक्त एक हूरहूर की अरे काहीच दिवसनी ही आपल्यासोबत नसणार, बर्‍याच गोष्टी मिस करणार,गप्पा,खाण, गॉसिप :-) बराच काही....आम्ही सायकॉलॉजी ची उत्तर लिहिताना एक पेटट वाक्य लिहायचो...Man is a Social Animal.....त्यचीच आठवण झाली....एखाद्याची केवढी सवय होऊन जाते आपल्याला....आता काही दिवस तरी मॅडम असतील नंतर चा बघू.....आणि हो या गोष्टीवर मला इतकाच लिहिता येतय......नॉट बॅड...7 वाक्य....याची पण होईल सवय हळु हळु......:-)

nave khadya....

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