Growing up

'you hav grown up' wht does this mean..????
growing old is a 'label'????? is it a permission or a restriction....????
permission to do wht u want...??? does it really gives you...??? or increases d restrictons on you..???? giv a thought...
after 'growing up' how many times hav we really behaved in a way we want...????
how many times played in mud...during rain...
how many times eaten a pencil....
how many times njoyed playing in garden....
how many times made a noise in a public place
really njoyed eating 'pepsicola'.....
if ever we hav done so wer we equally comfortable while behaving so.....????
these things seem very childish.....pple may say wht is this we hav better definitions of enjoyment....agree..but there are many things we hav done during our childhood days....even now we can do then but since we hav 'grown up' we dun do them might be wid d fear tht wht others will say..???
during childhood days do we had this fear....????
this wht my point is growing old gives u a sense of others, first think abt wht others will say then behave...no matter u want to njoy d event think of others....
who these others are...????? pple in socity, around u, 4 whom u r unknown, they r also unknown to you, but still u hav to care abt them......isn't it strange...???? sumthing unusual....to do the things frm which u will get pleasure u need to think of pple who r unknown to you.....
its beacuse u hav 'GROWN UP'

Manasa.....

Wellll....after a looooooooooong period m posting sumthig NEW.Nothing new had happened to post or write in soooooo many days....all routine work....
Bt in this routine work i got a new book to read. "Manasa" by Va.Pu.Kale
one of well known writers in Marathi literature. Amazing short story writer, excellent speaker, good dramatist wht else should i say about him.

Manasa, as name suggest is a book tht talks about different individuals, personality that Va.Pu had come across, hav met, talked and most importnantly liked or disliked. It includes all type of people from officers to peon, doctors to lawyers, musicians to dramatist, from well known or prominant personalitites to a layman.It includes different aspects of human personality,traits, behaviour, psychology.its very intersting to read his minute observation and ability to express them in an effective manner.
but again its very different from Pu.La.'s "Vyakti ani Valli" vyakti valli talks about specific personalitites though they r repersentaties of common man, they r specific, they run into their own wolrd, situation or in certain boundries.

this book talk about or focuses on general attitude, tendency and most importantly interaction among individuals, interaction that take place between society and individual.
To get knowledge of human behaviour, attitude it is not necessary to hav a degree of Psychology. You just need to hav a vision and hobby to observe people. To say this in his own words,
" Pustakanpeksha manasa vachali tar dnyan hota. Pustak mahiti puravatat. chalatibolati manasa mahiti peksha hi khup kahi detat. Tyasathi manasa vachanyacha course ghyayacha nahi. Course mhatala ki abhyas aala, degree, college, university he sagalech aala. Tenva manasa vachanyacha chand ghyayala hava ani tyasathi jivanavar bharpur prem hava. Manasa vachayachi ekamev fee hich,"jaganyavr prem"