Growing up

'you hav grown up' wht does this mean..????
growing old is a 'label'????? is it a permission or a restriction....????
permission to do wht u want...??? does it really gives you...??? or increases d restrictons on you..???? giv a thought...
after 'growing up' how many times hav we really behaved in a way we want...????
how many times played in mud...during rain...
how many times eaten a pencil....
how many times njoyed playing in garden....
how many times made a noise in a public place
really njoyed eating 'pepsicola'.....
if ever we hav done so wer we equally comfortable while behaving so.....????
these things seem very childish.....pple may say wht is this we hav better definitions of enjoyment....agree..but there are many things we hav done during our childhood days....even now we can do then but since we hav 'grown up' we dun do them might be wid d fear tht wht others will say..???
during childhood days do we had this fear....????
this wht my point is growing old gives u a sense of others, first think abt wht others will say then behave...no matter u want to njoy d event think of others....
who these others are...????? pple in socity, around u, 4 whom u r unknown, they r also unknown to you, but still u hav to care abt them......isn't it strange...???? sumthing unusual....to do the things frm which u will get pleasure u need to think of pple who r unknown to you.....
its beacuse u hav 'GROWN UP'

Manasa.....

Wellll....after a looooooooooong period m posting sumthig NEW.Nothing new had happened to post or write in soooooo many days....all routine work....
Bt in this routine work i got a new book to read. "Manasa" by Va.Pu.Kale
one of well known writers in Marathi literature. Amazing short story writer, excellent speaker, good dramatist wht else should i say about him.

Manasa, as name suggest is a book tht talks about different individuals, personality that Va.Pu had come across, hav met, talked and most importnantly liked or disliked. It includes all type of people from officers to peon, doctors to lawyers, musicians to dramatist, from well known or prominant personalitites to a layman.It includes different aspects of human personality,traits, behaviour, psychology.its very intersting to read his minute observation and ability to express them in an effective manner.
but again its very different from Pu.La.'s "Vyakti ani Valli" vyakti valli talks about specific personalitites though they r repersentaties of common man, they r specific, they run into their own wolrd, situation or in certain boundries.

this book talk about or focuses on general attitude, tendency and most importantly interaction among individuals, interaction that take place between society and individual.
To get knowledge of human behaviour, attitude it is not necessary to hav a degree of Psychology. You just need to hav a vision and hobby to observe people. To say this in his own words,
" Pustakanpeksha manasa vachali tar dnyan hota. Pustak mahiti puravatat. chalatibolati manasa mahiti peksha hi khup kahi detat. Tyasathi manasa vachanyacha course ghyayacha nahi. Course mhatala ki abhyas aala, degree, college, university he sagalech aala. Tenva manasa vachanyacha chand ghyayala hava ani tyasathi jivanavar bharpur prem hava. Manasa vachayachi ekamev fee hich,"jaganyavr prem"

Time.....

TIME--- the only forever existing thing....it was there, it is there and it will be there...
Most Powerfulll over all the others.....
Its time decides wether u r powerfull or u r weak.....U r d same across all d situation bt d things r different...they turn out differently at different moments because ultimately it is the time that plays role....

I remeber a story frm the periods of Mahabharata,
Lord Krishna was wounded n his gr8 n loving follower Arjuna went to him. In between he happened to meet Naradmuni. Naradmuni told Arjuna not to touch Krishna by any chance, it will be dangerous for him. He listened that n went to see Krishna. When Krishna saw him he said," I was waiting for u. Come and sit besides me." Arjun got confused neither he could say no to Krishna nor he could ignore Naradmuni's advice. Bt still he humbly rejected to sit near Krishna. Krishna respected his feelings n just asked to touch his wound with his arch if not by hand.Arjun agrees on that. After that he left during tht period Arjun was given responsibility to protect 'Gopikas' who had come to see Krishna. While returning some tribals happened to attack n tried to kidnap those 'gopikas' Arjun tried to protect them bt he just cant use his arch. His skillful archery seemed to fail he could not protect those gopikas. The great archer of the time could not protect gopikas from being kidnapped by tribals.
How come??? how did this happen???? The Arjun was the same, his skill was the same bt then tooo he could not use n influence his archery.
Because it was the TIME.....it was said thet when arjun touched Krishna's wound with his arch that time only the power of the arch was taken out n tht had bcum 'powerless' so Arjun couldnot use his Skill to protect the gopikas.
Kabir described this,
"Manushya bali hot nahi- samay hot balvan
Bhillan luti gopika- wohi arjun wohi baan"

Rang Sukhache

"Rang Sukhache" by Dr.Rama Marathe...
One of interesting books i hv came across...a must read book....
kay aahe ya pustakat...???? sukhachi definition???? sukh kase milavave yache soppe marg???? fukatchi "philosophy"???? mulich nahi...yatala pustakat kahich nahi...
The most interesting n important theme i found in this book is "unconditional acceptence" be it an individual or a situation...accept d way it is n move on in the life....
Life is like a ray...apparently v can see only 1 colour of life "White" bt wen tht ray passes through d prism it comes out with wonderful colours.....sameway u use prism to view ur life.....u will find d astonishing colours of life some r dark some r bright, sum r frightening sum r lightening...view ur life through psych-prism ;-)
Because its ultimately u who decied wht is happiness fr u!!!!!!

My 1st Post!!!!!

Well.....my 1st post!!! surprised..??? 1st because here is sumthing new n ORIGINAL m writing after d creation of this blog......in short i came 2 knw n understood 4 wht d blog is....( finally) so...this is a small attempt to write.....or post sumthin of my own.....till d moment there ws a collection of jus poems ( sum weird or BHAYANAK ) bt now as i have understood (?????) d use of blog so now u will find equally bhayanak comments from me;-)jus kiddin...My ORIGINAL posts will b there.....
so here i go........with all together new avatar.....New name,new template n hopefully new contents ;-)

Basically i consider this blog n all is kinda similar to wht we call diary writing n i dunt like diary writin at allllll.....noways....being a psychologist i definitely suggest pple 2 write wht they feel, it helps them in lettin out their feelings, emotions blah blah...bt personally i believe on Cathersis i.e talking to sumbody lettin ur feeling out wid conversation......nt necessarily active conversation bt jus a personal presence of others make u feel comfortable n secure....which doesnt happen in diary writin or perse writing so till d moment m nt convienced wid idea of writin wht u feel n all....2 way communication is effective present stimulus get response......

Ohhh...i hv written so much....cooool....waise being an arts student writin is nt new bt thinkin n writin is definitely a skilled job ;-)...coz no rattofication is possible :( Nevertheless, if i cnt write d option of poems is still open.....;-)

Jarashi vegali vaat.....

सिगरेटचा जेव्हा तुम्ही, मजेत घेता मस्त झुरका,
आवडलेल्या आमटीचा, आवाज करीत मारता भुरका,
विश्वास ठेवा यात काही पाप नाही,आनंदाने जगायचं नाकारणं, याच्यासारखा आणि दुसरा शाप नाही !

जबरदस्त डुलकी येते, धर्मग्रंथ वाचता वाचता,
लहान बाळासारखे तुम्ही, खुर्चीतच पेंगू लागता,
विश्वास ठेवा यात काही पाप नाही,आनंदाने जगायचं नाकारणं, याच्यासारखा आणि दुसरा शाप नाही !

देवळापुढील रांग टाळून, तुम्ही वेगळी वाट धरता,
गरम कांदाभजी खाऊन, पोटोबाची पूजा करता,
विश्वास ठेवा यात काही पाप नाही,आनंदाने जगायचं नाकारणं, याच्यासारखा आणि दुसरा शाप नाही !

प्रेमाची हाक येते, तुम्ही धुंद साद देता,
कवितेच्या ओळी ऐकून, मनापासून दाद देता,
विश्वास ठेवा यात काही पाप नाही,आनंदाने जगायचं नाकारणं, याच्यासारखा आणि दुसरा शाप नाही !

y we need to bound by d "idealistic" rules of society.....kadhitari svatahcya manasarkha thodasa char lokanpeksha vegala rather viruddha jagava.....majja karavi....aayushyachya rastyavar gadi kadhi wrong side ne chalavavi, no parking zone madhe "muddam" park karavi tyatun milnari majja, anand tyanach kalto je asa vagatat....nehemich nakasamorun chalanaryana kasa kalnar ki ajubajuchya foothpath var kiti majja asate......gadi jenva ghatatun turns sghet jate tenva khari pravaschi majja, tenvhach aapan jasta alert rahato.....nahitar lambach lamb saral rasta eksuri banun jato....bagahva tar vaat kiti saral ani soppi pan tevdhich eksuri......

Time for Self......

आयुष्याच्या अल्बममध्येआठवणींचे फ़ोटो असतात
आणखी एक कॉपी काढायलानिगेटिव्ह्ज मात्र शिल्लक नसतात

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गीतेच रस्ता योग्यच आहेपण एखादा दिवस पाडगावकराना द्या,
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तलावाच्या काठावर उताणे पडले पाहिजे.

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एवढ्या सुन्दर जगण्यासाठी Thanks नुसत म्हणा

Give time to urself......best option to reduce stress, tension
give it a thought fr how many times nowdays u hav really "spend" time on things which u "want", "like" to do......want is nt in terms of education or career in terms of ur hobbies, things tht gv u unconditional pleasure, happiness.....
U r nt fr d life, life is fr U......make it interestin, happy....
Take out time for urself u will find enough time fr doing ur regular or routine things.....

Jamavun Bagh.....

My all time favourite poem.....